ABOUT THIS BLOG

Welcome to Unapologetically Weird with Tobare — a quiet, reflective corner of the internet for deep feelers, curious minds, and quiet rebels.

This blog is a living journal of poetry, personal essays, musings, and podcast quotes—woven from real emotions, introspection, and raw experience. It was born from my need to untangle identity, unlearn people-pleasing, and make peace with being different. Here, I write about healing, self-discovery, mental clarity, and the art of choosing yourself, without apology.

Whether you’re here for the soft prose, journal-style reflections, or intimate stories about family, memory, faith, burnout, or starting over, I’m honoured to share this space with you.

This is a home for those who’ve felt like the outcast, the overthinker, the one who loved too hard or spoke too little. For those rebuilding their inner world, one word at a time.

If you’ve ever felt too quiet, too sensitive, too weird—welcome. You’re not alone. Let’s explore life’s complexities and contradictions together.

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