Join the Unapologetically Weird Community






You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Welcome to a space where quiet minds speak loud truths and weirdness is a form of freedom. If you’ve ever felt out of place, too deep, or just deeply human, you’ve found your people.

Here’s how you can stay connected and be part of the Unapologetically Weird journey:




🎙️ Listen to the Podcast 

Unapologetically Weird with Tobare is a weekly podcast where I explore identity, healing, people-pleasing, self-worth, and the awkward beauty of starting over. Think of it as audio journaling for the overthinkers, deep feelers, and late-night wanderers.

👉 Listen on Spotify
👉 Or search “Unapologetically Weird with Tobare” on your favourite podcast platform





📸 Follow Me on Instagram

For daily reflections, poetry snippets, reel previews, and gentle reminders to breathe, follow along on Instagram. This is where I show up most often to journal out loud and chat with my weird, wonderful community.

👉 @unapologetically_tobare

📺 Watch on YouTube

From quiet vlogs and spoken word to visual diaries and YouTube Shorts, subscribe to catch the visual side of Unapologetically Weird and watch life unfold softly but honestly.

👉 Subscribe to my YouTube channel

💌 Let’s Stay Connected

More than just content — this is a safe corner for curious, creative, and unconventional souls. I’d love to hear from you, so don’t be shy to comment, DM, or share your thoughts.

Together, we’re redefining what it means to be weird — unapologetically.


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